An incredible provider who blows your mind isn’t always easy to find. But, every so often, you do … And you don’t want to lose her.
However, there are a lot of reasons why you may find yourself in the market for a new provider again.
For one, this industry is very fluid. Women leave the industry all the time for various reasons. Some come back. Some do not. And if it’s your all-time favourite girl, that hurts.
Some of you may also find yourself in a situation where the provider you’ve always seen just isn’t doing it for you anymore… She just doesn’t float your boat … for whatever reason. Then maybe it’s time to mix it up and find a new one.
Maybe you’re new in town and haven’t found someone who strikes your fancy yet. Maybe you’ve never seen a sex worker before and don’t know where to start. Or, maybe you enjoy variety in who you see. All solid reasons to be searching.
The first step in determining who that lucky lady is going to be is figuring out what it is you’re actually looking for.
Many of you are already very aware of where your particular kinks lie and what kind of session fulfills those desires. But for those of you new to the scene or even just considering seeing a provider for the first time, you should try to determine what kind of session will leave you most satisfied.
Would you prefer an erotic massage with a happy ending that lasts half an hour or are you looking for someone to go to dinner with, get to know and then enjoy some intimate time over the course of several hours. Would you like a girlfriend experience with lots of kissing and cuddling or would you rather be handcuffed naked while having your ass whipped and being told you’re garbage. All of these scenarios and more can be accommodated. Keep in mind your budget will also play a large part in determining the type of session you should go for.
Once you’ve determined the type of experience you’re looking for, it’s time to find someone who not only offers that type of experience but is also someone who you would enjoy experiencing it with.
There’s two main factors you should take into consideration when picking a lady to have fun with.
The first factor is the obvious one … Their physical appearance. Do you like them young looking or more mature? Do you like them petite or with a little cushion for the pushin’? Do you like all natural beauties or ones with fun enhancements? Do you prefer a particular ethnicity? A certain hair colour? Or do your tastes vary? And keep in mind, there’s nothing wrong with liking any of these! If something makes you hard, enjoy it!
The other factor may even be more important than appearance and that’s personality. With such an intimate act taking place between two people, it really matters if you actually like being with the other person. If the provider is as pretty as they come but you can’t stand her personality, you’re not going to enjoy your session. On the other hand, a great personality can make a woman much more attractive than when you first lay eyes on her. The only drawback is that a great personality can be a bit harder to flush out during your search.
But now that you know what kind of session you want, you know what kind of physical attributes you might like and you have a pretty good idea about which personality types you’re drawn to, how do you find this incredible girl?
If you’re starting with no experience, depending on what kind of session you want, you can search Google forthat particular type of session in your area. Be it erotic massage, GFE, escort, BDSM or more, Google will start you off with businesses that offer the types of sessions you’re looking for.
Now don’t just go book by looking at a spa or agency’s website and picking the sexiest looking girl there. Websites always put the best looking pictures up and they may not always completely capture the provider’s accurate current appearance. Also, they very rarely show their faces … And your optimistic imagination will always fill that blurred out face with the face of a supermodel. Plus, most importantly, you cannot tell a personality from an air brushed photo. The pics may look hot – the reality may differ.
And because this type of experience really should be considered a luxury, you should expect to pay a decent amount of money for it. With that in mind, however, you’ll want to make sure that money is going to be spent on a session you enjoy not feeling ripped off.
Do your research!
Twitter is a great place to get an idea about different providers who offer the types of services you’re looking for. You may also come across independent providers who you wouldn’t necessarily find through agencies or spas. Plus, many of the women will show un-edited candid pics of themselves and some may also post pics of their faces. Going to their Twitter page and seeing what they post and how they interact with other people may also give you an idea about their personalities.
And if you really want to see some great info about providers and get an idea about their appearance and personalities, check out my Twitter page @Workinggirlsix and scroll through some of the WG6 Spotlight Girls interviews. There are lots of solid insights there into hundreds of providers from across the country. Just sayin’.
Another final place you can go online, which I cautiously recommend, are review boards. There guys will (ideally) review real sessions they’ve had with providers. From the reviews, you can get other guys’ insights into what to expect from a potential provider – their take on her appearance, personality and what types of services she may potentially be open to.
The only caveat here is that some of the reviews can be a bit toxic. Reviews may have been written to damage certain providers’ reputations because they didn’t offer unprotected services or for other manipulative reasons. Some reviews may be by guys trying to brag about all the unprotected sex they have because the providers can’t resist their charms. Try to weed through the bullshit and figure out what is legitimate and what is not even worth looking at.
And even after all that research on the review boards, you can still end up getting a great session from a poorly reviewed girl or a lackluster session from a really popular girl. It’s important to read what the review is getting at … And if that’s really important to you. For instance, you may see a negative review for a girl because she only offered a BJ with a condom on. But is that really that bad or is this provider’s extra caution going to keep you safe during your session?
If you’re ready to take the plunge, you can get a good idea about what a provider’s personality is like based on her interactions with you while you’re setting up the appointment. If she makes you feel comfortable through the booking process, that’s a great sign. Just don’t expect any hand holding through this process – they don’t have time to explain to you what’s already on their website.
If you’re thinking a massage parlour may be more your speed, you can always check out the lineup by going in and asking to see who’s working. While they come out to see you, you’ll get at least a real idea of what they look like. The only drawback is that you won’t get much of a sense of their personalities – they’ll all act fun and flirty there.
All in all, even after doing all this research, you’re still going to wind up with the occasional session that doesn’t really live up to your hopes. It happens. Just keep in mind that if every girl was great, it wouldn’t make finding that one you really like as incredible of an experience as it really is.
Happy hunting and good luck!
Until next time,
–D at @Workinggirlssix