We recently ran a poll on Twitter asking guys who have never seen an escort before why that was. The results were:
• Too shy or embarrassed : 45% • In a committed relationship: 20% • Too expensive: 25% • Moral / religious reason: 10%
I addressed the “Too Expensive” response in a previous post last week … but clearly, the overwhelming reason why guys won’t see an escort is because they’re too shy or too embarrassed.
That’s too bad. If a guy wants to spend time with a beautiful Sex Worker, fear of rejection shouldn’t hold him back. These women are not there to judge – they’re there to provide a fantastic time without judgement.
Shyness and insecurity are powerful feelings to overcome. But I hope this article can help … Because the reward of doing so … Is AMAZING!!!
Seeing an escort is an incredible experience that can leave you very satisfied, build up your self-esteem and leave you definitely looking forward to your next session.
For someone missing that incredible sense of intimacy for whatever reason, the soft touch of a sex worker can be exactly what you need. For the most part, you just need the right Sex Worker to make you feel comfortable.
And speaking of the right Sex Worker, WG6 knows quite a few of them. So, I asked our Canadian group of gorgeous Working Girls at our WG6 Roundtable this week what advice they had for guys who are too shy or embarrassed to see a Sex Worker. What they had to say may help you decide to take that next step towards ecstasy… (We’ll include pics too just to help you with your decision.)
Bentley Bandito: “There’s no point to be shy because it’s a first time for everyone. We’re here to make you feel comfortable and relax.”
Amanda Labelle: “My advice is that we are as shy and embarrassed as you are and to actually express this feeling to the Sex Worker. A lot of us do accept first-timers and will patiently walk you through it so you have the best time!”
Lotus Cheeks: “There is nothing to be embarrassed about! We are both adults, looking for a consensually good time! I absolutely love helping a client relax and put their mind at ease, whether it’s with some good conversation or a nice massage.
Most Sex Workers I know are the most down to earth, easygoing (and gorgeous) people! It’s easy to feel intimidated, but remember that we are here to make you feel good!”
Allie Zeon: “I honestly think by joining a review board, reading our reviews, following our social media and getting to know us more from that platform will definitely help. If you guys are too shy or intimidated, there is no way to convince you immediately. It will take some time for sure.”
Sadie: “The people I’ve met and worked with in this industry are always the sweetest souls. We are experts in making sure you feel comfortable from start to finish and if someone makes you feel embarrassed about anything then that person is immature and maybe they should find a different job. We want you to have the best experience every single time. My DM’s are always open to any questions.”https://twitter.com/sadie_flirt
Velvet Skye: “There is no need to be shy, if you are courteous, and straightforward about your situation personally I will take the time to answer any questions.” https://twitter.com/VS_VelvetSkye
Riley Swede: “Times of insecurity happen to all of us and for different reasons. I strongly recommend researching the lady or ladies of interest and making a genuine inquiry, perhaps suggesting a daily or weekly virtual / texting and email arrangement to establish communication and ease some tensions, to clarify intentions, desires, questions and boundaries all while becoming more comfortable, more confidant and getting acquainted with a new potential beautiful friend.”
Guys, as you can see, shyness or embarrassment doesn’t have to hold you back. These women have seen lots of guys who are insecure about one thing or another – lots. LOTS.
But don’t just take it from the ladies. I also have a group of clients of the industry who I consulted during the WG6 Man Cave feature this week. Here is what they had to say on the topic:
Paper Wings: “First off, to go ahead and do it! These ladies are so accommodating and respectful – they will put your mind at ease the second you walk through the door. These ladies are real people who are some of the most warm, kind and considerate people you will ever meet. The other advice I would give is to be careful. I put myself in a few dangerous situations early on in my time with companions because I wasn’t thinking straight, and learned some great lessons because of it. Do your research and check her social media presence, and you will be perfectly safe during your fun.”
Mr. Generous: “It is a luxury to see a Sex Worker but there is nothing to be shy or embarrassed about.
We are sexual creatures who survived by being sexual for thousands of years. Currently the dating world sucks! If you are able to live a fantasy without getting too carried away, enjoy yourself! Be safe, treat them well, avoid scammers and notify your bros!”
Aster Louder: “First, consider yourself lucky that you thought of visiting a service Sex Worker since you are going to have a fantastic experience. Second, think of you being treated like a king by a beautiful courtesan. Thirdly, you would be meeting someone you haven’t met before, it’s an opportunity to grab and you shouldn’t be shy or embarrassed about it. I was shy at the first time, and still get nervous some time and that’s ok. After your first time, trust me, you will be more confident and you will have a different feeling. Just go for it without thinking much about it, since it’s gonna change you for sure in a positive way.”
Del Stampr: “Just look at it as if you’re going to see a friend you haven’t seen since high school. And you’re just getting better acquainted with each other.”
Aaron Kohn: “No matter where you would look, there is no one as beautiful loving and accepting as a sex worker. You have no reason to fear, for I have lived since the first day of my life being disabled, ignored and treated unworthy, but all I have ever felt from the ladies is love. They can help heal you and bring out the best part of your true self.”
There you have it from the horses’ mouths. These clients were all shy at one time … And still do get shy on occassion.
But the two common themes from all of them is how understanding and accommodating of your shyness these women are and also how worth seeing them is. Regardless how nervous, embarassed or insecure you feel before you go, all that will be replaced with a sense of relief once you get there.
You need to keep in mind, most guys who see providers are not Brad Pitt sex machines – they are everyday guys just like you. These beautiful women see guys of every body type, every age and every ability – sexual or otherwise. Chances are, they have seen many guys just like you. And if they haven’t, they’re usually pretty chill and up for learning about someone who’s a little different … in whatever way you’re different.
What they are more interested in is how respectful you are and how clean you are. And, since it is a business transaction, that you are able to pay the amounts they set out – don’t haggle!
Guys, take a look at the pictures of the beautiful women in this post. Think about what it would be like to spend time with one or more of them. They don’t have any problems seeing someone like you – you’re exactly who they want to see.
And if you do see them, what happens between two consenting adults behind closed doors isn’t up to me to speculate about. But it is up to you to think about!
I’ve included their Twitter handles so you can figure out how to reach them if you have any questions. (I’m just that kinda’ guy!)
Until next time.
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Velvet Skye https://velvetskye.wixsite.com/companion
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